Whatever you believe to be true is!

You have been taught since childhood what you must believe and whom you should listen to and which god you should worship! AND it is all true for... you!

You must get yourself into a position of being around positive people who build you up and challenge you to new heights and dump those who keep you imprisoned in a dungeon of mediocrity. 

STAY AWAY FROM OLD HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE FRIENDS.

EITHER YOU'VE GROWN AND THEY HAVEN'T OR YOU'VE GROWN IN COMPLETELY DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS.

MOVE OUT OF THE NEIGHBORHOOD YOU GREW UP IN.

NEVER VISIT THE NEIGHBORHOOD YOU GREW UP IN, BECAUSE YOU WILL GO DOWN MEMORY LANE AND THOSE DAYS ARE GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IF THEY WERE GOOD MEMORIES IT MAY LEAVE YOU FEELING DEPRESSED BECAUSE YOU'LL REMEMBER THAT THOSE DAYS WERE MAGICAL UNLIKE TODAY WHICH SUCKS. 

IF THEY WERE BAD MEMORIES, REMEMBERING THEM COULD HAVE YOU RELIVING ALL THE PAIN AND HATRED THAT ORIGINALLY ACCOMPANIED THEM.

LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO BE A ENERGIZING EXITING ADVENTURE, NOT A REPLAY OF WATCHING SPONGE BOB 3 HOURS A DAY AND KNOWING EVERY EPISODE BY HARD!!! THAT IS NOT A LIFE!!! IT IS NOT EVEN AN EXISTENCE!!! IT IS COMPARABLE TO CHINESE WATER TORTURE!!!

IT WOULD ALSO BE ONE FUCKING PATHETIC SHAME WHEN THIS IS ALL THAT YOU HAVE TO RECOLLECT ON YOUR DEATH BED!!!

GET RID OF PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST IN YOUR LIFE BY DEFAULT! i.e. NEIGHBORS!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH THESE SORRY ASS MOTHER FUCKERS (JUST LIKE THEY HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH YOU) SAVE FOR THE FACT THAT YOU INHABIT THE SAME GEOGRAPHICAL AREA. YOU MAY HAVE BEEN TAUGHT TO BE POLITE TO THEM, BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN MAKING YOURSELF AVAILABLE TO THEM AT THEIR DISPOSAL, WHILE THEY NEVER HAVE TIME FOR YOU BECAUSE IT IS NOT CONVENIENT FOR THEM!!! 

CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENTS FREQUENTLY SEEING AS THIS CONTINUALLY REMOVES YOU FROM YOUR COMFORT ZONES.

MAKE MOVING AND GETTING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONES AS MUCH OF A REGULAR REGULAR HABIT AS LEASING A NEW CAR. MEANING THAT EVERY 2-3 YEARS, IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON!

CHANGE ENVIRONMENTS FREQUENTLY BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH THE ENVIRONMENT YOU FIRST MOVE TO MAY BE 100% COMPATIBLE WITH YOU, YOU AND THAT ENVIRONMENT ARE BOTH LIVING BREATHING ENTITIES AND YOU ARE BOTH GROWING ON YOUR OWN ACCORD IN INDIVIDUAL DIRECTIONS. 

ALSO CHANGE ENVIRONMENTS FREQUENTLY BECAUSE YOU WILL EXPERIENCE AND LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN IN THAT ENVIRONMENT IN THE FIRST 2 YEARS AND AFTER THAT, YOU ARE PRETTY MUCH JUST DOING THE SAME OLD THING AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN... MUCH LIKE WATCHING SPONGE BOB 3 HOURS A DAY (FOR A YEAR) AND KNOWING EVERY EPISODE BY HARD!!! OH GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE TORTURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE PEOPLE YOU REMEMBER BEST, THE ONES WHO WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR REPERTOIRE OF GOOD MEMORIES ARE USUALLY THE ONES YOU HAVE ONLY KNOWN FOR 3 -9 MONTHS.

I LOOKED BACK ON OLD FRIENDSHIPS AND GREW SAD BECAUSE THESE DAYS ARE GONE! THESE PEOPLE ARE NO LONGER A PART OF MY LIFE. IS THIS SAD? HELL NO!!!

YOUR HIGH SCHOOL FRIENDS WERE YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE THEY WERE THE PEOPLE MOST SUITED TO YOU AND WHO YOU WERE IN THAT TIME IN YOUR LIFE AND THESE PEOPLE WERE THERE BY DEFAULT SEEING THAT YOU INHABITED THE SAME SENDING DISTRICT. HAD YOU INHABITED A DIFFERENT SENDING DISTRICT, YOU PROBABLY NEVER WOULD HAVE MET.

I ALSO WONDERED ABOUT FRIENDSHIPS TURNED SOUR AND IT OCCURRED TO ME THAT THIS WAS DUE TO THE FACT THAT WE HAD OUTGROWN EACH OTHERS AND EACH OTHERS USEFULNESS.