Jealous people are in your neighborhood
Jealous people are everywhere; at work, in your Gym, on a movie set and in your
family. A person with the same goal who doesn't have what you have, can be jealous.
Jealousy can be in everyone, everywhere, at any time.
The more talented you are, the more jealous people you will have around you. Especially in the movie business
where everybody wants to be in the spotlight. You can compare it with a piece of meat and 20 scavengers around it. Besides jealous people feel bad
themselves, so they want to give you the same bad feeling back. They want to destroy you, humiliate you and put you down with all possible methods. They are angry
at you for no reason and are dangerous for your career and career opportunities. They stab you in your back, put you down and walk over your dead body to get the meat!
There are 2 main types of jealous people:
1 The dangerous one.
The dangerous one shows he doesn't like you. You didn't do anything bad to him but he doesn't like you and you cannot become friends. He can put you down in public or can make jokes about you, which
seem like jokes but are in truth weapons of personal destruction. Arguing with these guys will take energy.
2 The very dangerous one.
These people pretend they like you and claim to be your best friend. They are
unrealistically nice. They even promise you things. But they only want to control you and stop you. They will talk
in a caring and friendly with you so as to get their information, which they will
later use to destroy you. They will try to find your weak points. They will Later
even talk to some key figures with some power over your life and career and tell them about your bad properties.
Example: 'Friend B' tells you there's a big movie coming up and he's in charge of the casting. He would like to have your showreel to present it to the producer. What he really wants is that you don't go to the casting because you are better then him. He doesn't show your showreel at all and he got the part !!! ( It really happened )
If you are not aware of these people you are doomed ! When going to a movie set,
always be focused on your goal and know what you want. Jealous people can see that and
will try to somehow get you out of balance. Regardless, keep
focused on your main goal. You are not there to make friends. If you meet someone who can be a friend well
that's a good. But be careful.
When people are approaching you, you can feel it. If you feel tired when they talk with you... go away. Go warm up somewhere or take some coffee. Talk with people who are inspiring for you....
Positive thing:
All news is not so bad, however
Jealous people can make you very tired but can give you power as well. They make you alert as a fighter and make you go for
your goal even harder. With their
behavior they get the opposite result..... The worst thing you can do to someone is to praise him in heaven. If your daughter comes home with her new boyfriend... praise him like he is the best son in law ever... she will not like him anymore... If you tell someone he's the best of all, he will lose
his fighting power because he's confirmed as the best already. So praise your enemies, stay alert and think about your goal.
Jealous people will always lose because instead of focusing on their goal, their new goal is to destroy you first. When you have more goals one goal will suffer.
Don't spend your energy on jealous people ! Their jealousy will eventually devour and destroy them!