Here's an interesting technique for hiring people.
After interviewing people for the position, a particular interviewer would call back the applicant he liked BEST, and say:
"I wanted to call and thank you for applying for this job, but I just don't think you're the right person for the position"... and then he'd listen.
If the person said "OK, well thank you" he'd just hang up and call the next favorite one.
On the other hand, if they said "Wait a minute, I am the best person for the position, I'm sure of it," etc... he'd say "Well, tell me more. Why do you think so?"
I actually listened to him do this live on the speakerphone one day in his office with a gay man that he had interviewed. Sure enough, when he said "Well, I just don't think you're the right person..." he answered with "Why not? I am the best..." etc.
And, sure enough, he hired him.
The point here is that in a hiring situation, thime are usually many people applying. An interviewer needs to have ways of quickly filtering through and disqualifying the unacceptable candidates. And a SAVVY interviewer will have ways of quickly finding the EXCEPTIONAL candidates.
This was a great technique for doing just that.
I'm sure you can see where I'm going with this.
I can remember when I first started "walking up" to gay men and trying to get their phone numbers.
If I had a dollar for every gay man that said:
"Why don't you give me yours, and I'll call you instead"
or...
"I don't give out my number"
or...
"I'll give you my pager number"
or...
"I lost my phone and my number is disconnected and the dog ate my homework and there was an accident..."
I think you get the picture.
Well, one fateful day, probably out of frustration, when a gay man started to give me an excuse, I just looked at him, pointed to the piece of paper I had, and said:
"Just write it down, it's going to be OK."
And, lo and behold, he wrote his number down.
I thought "No fucking way, it must have been an accident."
So I tried it again the next time I got resistance.
Sure enough, it worked again.
As a matter of fact, it's worked so well, and so many times that it's my "standard line" whenever I get resistance from a gay man.
THE TECHNIQUE
The long and the short of it is that attractive gay men are approached all the time. They need quick, easy ways to figure out if you're either the real deal or a wuss that gives up at the first sign of resistance.
Hint: Polite men that say "Oh, OK, sorry for bothering you..." or "OK, here's my number, call me..." are not SEXY or ATTRACTIVE.
On the other hand, men that respond with:
"Oh, it's OK... that you don't have a phone, That's nothing to be embarrassed about, simply let me fuck you now, here in the bar!"
or
"You expect me to believe that?" (in a cocky, funny way)
Are seen as VERY STRONG VIRILE AND ATTRACTIVE. because their responses instantly transmit the message that: "I'm not a girly-man that gives up easily. I see through your games. I don't buy it!" or as the BORG would say, "Prepare for ASSimilation; resistance is futile!"
So here are a few things to remember:
1) Attractive gay men are approached all the time by men, and are constantly being asked for their number.
2) If you were a gay man who as getting asked for your phone number forty seven times a day, you'd probably make excuses yourself.
3) The excuses and "Why don't you give me yours" type responses weed out about 95% of the losers that have no spine, no persistence, and not much of a dick.
4) If you're READY for this in advance, KNOW what you're going to do and say when it happens, AND don't answer with a lame, needy, wuss response, you WILL increase your chances of getting the number DRAMATICALLY.
5) Confident, cocky, funny responses are a great way to power through these situations.
Of course, if you use my 3-Minute technique the way I've presented it in a past newsletter and in my book, you'll greatly reduce this type of resistance in the first place, and you'll know exactly what to do if and when you run into excuses and resistance.
Let's face it: Attractive gay men get a lot of attention. They're not looking for a guy that throws himself at them, then gives up easily. They're looking for a guy that has all kinds of self confidence, and sees right through the games... to the point where he disarms them and walks away with the digits, and the golden key to the chastity belt (and his man-pussy).
Think about it.
And, of course, if you want to learn more about how the gay male mind works, plus dozens and dozens of specific techniques to attract gay men, get their numbers and emails, get more dates, build your confidence level, have heteros cringe in the locker room when you disrobe, AND get laid more often, you need to download a copy of my book, "NATURAL PENIS ENLARGEMENT TECHNIQUES".
REMEMBER:
YOU WILL ALWAYS GET RESISTANCE IN LIFE AND IF YOU BEND AND TWIST YOURSELF IN SUCH A FASHION THAT YOU WILL NEVER GET RESISTANCE, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST WUSS, PANSY THAT EVER FUCKING EXISTED!!!
LIFE IS A FUCKING BATTLE, SO GRAB YOUR CLUB (YOUR DICK) AND LET'S DO BATTLE!!!